Help Not Found

Okay, bit of a short post today. This thought came to me after being made privy to a certain bit of information about someone I know.

Sometimes people you know may change in various and unexpected ways. Ways, that might not always be healthy for them or others. But to a certain extent we have to acknowledge that it isn’t always our place or within our capabilities to help that person.

Essentially, some unsettling information came to light about someone I know and it’s one of those situations where I and others just have to let it play out. That’s not an easy thing to accept, especially since human beings like to feel in control or able to affect change. Unfortunately, some things are out of our depths, at least mine in this case.

I’m not sure if I’ll ever see that friend I know in the future and if I do, will I even be able to recognise them? It’s hard to say. But I will have to find solace either way.

I guess the message I’m getting to is, not everything is in your power to change. The domain you have the most control over is yourself and your own actions. So, that means in some instances the best we can be is an example of how to conduct life affairs.

Sorry about the more of a downer post this week, I won’t go into the personal details because that’s unfair. But these type of thoughts have been playing in my head all week.

Once again, Thank you to everyone for all your support, it means a lot.

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